There are two kinds of people in the world : those who are never satisfied and those who love the taste of a snowflake.
One day, i was pregnant and a colleague asked me if she could touch my belly. I told her she couldn't. She was really surprised and disappointed by my answer...
In my opinion, this little story demonstrate how ambivalent is the society to the mothers. Of course, this woman was nice and protective, but at the same time she was encraoching upon my personnal space.
The relationship between motherhood and freedom is, for me, an important issue. The day i became pregnant, i really felt like i've lost an important part of my freedom. Almost everyone was asking a lot of personal questions about breastfeed, epidural, etc. And behind those questions, there was sometimes a kind of judgment, and this horrible consequence : you could be a bad mother. If you're listening to all these opinions, that's sure you are a bad mother (and i don't know how you could be a good one).
Another example : the breastfeeding. In France, the mothers who doesn't want to breastfeed are regulary qualified as bad mothers beacause they don't really choose what's best for their child. I choose to breastfeed my kids an i'm still breastfeeding my son of 2 years old. And now, i'm, for some people, a bad mother because he's too old, i'm too possessive, etc. Now i don't care, i know i'm human, not perfect, and with the father of my kids we make choices. But these kind of judgements were very violents because when you are a young mother, you want to do what's right but you don't always know what's right... And it can be really hard, violent and sad.
- Nothing big - 8-bits freestyle
Here is a free reinterpretation of the HR greatest hits Nothing big, made with a gameboy emulator...
I'm super tired. I'm tired as usual, but today, I'm wearing a cape.
In our house, we found this box with a lot of keys. Everyone who used these is dead now. I think the most of locks doesn't exist anymore. But maybe have we a treasure chest somewhere in the garden ?
- Little ghost - with trumpet addition
I did tha a few monts ago... Why i didn't upload it on the site ? I don't know...
It's really a beautiful song.
the dry trumpet track is in the resources below.