Stop.

Just stop.

Stop being who they want you to be. They'll tell you who they think you are and what you should be. Really, people love to do this. But that doesn't mean that you have to listen. Do not let them define you and dictate what you are, what you can do, what you can't do. Don't let them tell you what you are or are not capable of. They couldn't possibly know.

Only you can define yourself. Be who you think you are, who you want to be. Don't limit yourself based on everyone else's misconceptions. Don't let anyone else declare what your life is.

Figure it out for yourself. Live up to your own standards and no one else's. And don't even let your own mind prevent you from being who you want to be.